Story · Ajahn Brahm
The poem by Adolf Hitler
Content note: Hitler attribution — verify (the poem is attributed to Hitler in some sources; authorship disputed); politically sensitive
The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)
Have a read of that book “Opening the Door of Your Heart” and there you'll see a poem of a mother's, of a son’s love to her mother. I forget exactly how it goes but it's something like “when your mother grows old, when her eyes are dim and her hands become very weak, when she asks you for a favor reply in kindness, if she asked you again, reply in kindness the second time and a third time, please help her because the time will come, the terrible time when your mother can’t ask no more, so, and every time she asks, give time to her. It was something like that. But when I read first read that poem I couldn't believe it was written by Adolf Hitler!
▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 40:39 (to 41:33)
A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)
Ajahn Brahm put a tender poem about loving a demanding mother in his book, and only afterwards did readers see whose name was attached. He wanted to show that no one is simply evil. Think of difficult people kindly, even when they're not around. Look for their good side, and help that side grow.
In brief (our summary)
In Opening the Door of Your Heart he included a beautiful poem about a son's unconditional love for his demanding mother — and only afterwards does the reader see the author: Adolf Hitler. He put it there to show that everyone has some goodness; people aren't simply evil.
Teaching point
There is some beauty and goodness in every person; don't call anyone simply evil.
When this story may help
- demonising others
- judging people
Themes
Source & credit
Told by Ajahn Brahm in Why Is It So Hard To Be Kind? | Ajahn Brahm | 05 March 2010 · 2010-04-12 · ▶ watch from 40:39 to 41:33 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia
3 other tellings of this story
- Our Mind and Our Health | Ajahn Brahm | 7 July 2023 · 2023-07-08 · ▶ watch from 1:06:25 to 1:07:35 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia
- Understanding Arguments | Ajahn Brahm | 15-04-2011 · 2011-04-16 · ▶ watch from 18:09 to 19:29 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaApr 2011 telling: paraphrases the mother-love poem at length; reveal that the author is Hitler; used to challenge conditioned views of pure evil (and of one's own religion as best).
- Kindness, Generosity and Forgiveness | Ajahn Brahm | 8 July 2022 · 2022-07-08 · ▶ watch from 1:04:14 to 1:05:17 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaJul 2022 telling: poem of love for mum in Opening the Door; challenges total condemnation; adds the 'if your mother asks…' line from the poem.
Caption notes: Manual (volunteer) captions; occasional misspellings kept as is.
The narrative is Ajahn Brahm's own telling, quoted from the talk captions. The summary and reflection are Being Mindful Stories's editorial notes. Please credit the teacher and link the original talk. Markdown version