Story · Ajahn Brahm

'The execution was too fast'

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Content note: capital punishment and murder; second-hand, details not given

The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)

I was sitting next to a Catholic Priest who told me an anecdote from the United States, where some of the relations of a person who was, I think killed, murdered, attended the execution of the relation's, loved-one's murderer. And after witnessing the execution, came back and said, the execution was too fast. It should've been slower. That really hurt me so much.

▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 14:39 (to 15:14)

A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)

Relatives of a murder victim watched the killer's execution and complained it was too fast. Hearing that hurt Ajahn Brahm deeply. Their pain was real, but wanting more suffering keeps the wound open. An eye for an eye leaves everyone blind. Healing begins when we stop needing the other to hurt.

In brief (our summary)

At a conference on reconciliation and forgiveness, a Catholic priest tells Ajahn Brahm of relatives of a murder victim in the United States who attended the murderer's execution. Afterwards they said the execution was too fast — it should have been slower. Ajahn Brahm says hearing that really hurt him.

Teaching point

Attachment to being a victim makes us want others to suffer; it keeps us from freedom.

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Themes

Source & credit

Told by Ajahn Brahm in Freedom: The Path To Happiness | Ajahn Brahm | 11-05-2007 · 2007-05-14 · ▶ watch from 14:39 to 15:14 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia

Caption notes: Manual (volunteer) captions; occasional misspellings kept as is.

The narrative is Ajahn Brahm's own telling, quoted from the talk captions. The summary and reflection are Being Mindful Stories's editorial notes. Please credit the teacher and link the original talk. Markdown version

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