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'Ajahn Brahm said what's done is finished'

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The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)

not like one of the first times I told that story and just after telling that story on a Sunday a couple of parents came to complain to me so we're not going to bring our son to listen to you anymore so what did I do wrong so that story what's wrong with it I'll tell you what's wrong with it on Saturday night our 16 year old son said he was going off to a party and we told him do you remember your agreement son you say you finish your homework and only then go to the party have you finished your homework that's what they said Dad Mom just says that John Brown said what's done is finished here tomorrow got big trouble for that

▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 17:01 (to 17:52)

A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)

A teenager skipped his homework for a party, telling his parents Ajahn Brahm said what's done is finished. The parents were furious; Ajahn Brahm secretly sided with the boy. Teachings need common sense. Still, the to-do list never really ends. Give rest real priority, or you'll never find the time.

In brief (our summary)

One of the first times he told the 'what's done is finished' story, parents complained the next Sunday that they wouldn't bring their son any more. Their 16-year-old had agreed to finish his homework before going to a Saturday party; asked if he had, he said, 'Ajahn Brahm said what's done is finished.' Ajahn Brahm got into big trouble — though he says he'd support the kid.

Teaching point

Teachings need wisdom in use; still, not everything has to be finished before you can relax.

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Themes

Source & credit

Told by Ajahn Brahm in Relax | Ajahn Brahm | 19 May 2017 · 2017-05-19 · ▶ watch from 17:01 to 17:52 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia

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Caption notes: YouTube auto-captions: unpunctuated, words left exactly as captioned. 'John Brown' = Ajahn Brahm (not changed).

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