Story · Ajahn Brahm
'Goodnight, Paul'
Content note: paranormal claim
The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)
that uh couple in Perth, they weren't Buddhist, but they came to see us because, you know, their young child, second boy, just came out out of hospital with the mom, just been born, and they asked the older boy, "Please say goodnight to your brother." And the older boy lent over the the pram and said something like, "Goodnight, Peter." And Peter replied back, "Goodnight, Paul." He was only a couple of weeks old. And then, of course, they were stunned. They're not supposed to be able to speak at that time. But then, uh Paul said once more, "Goodnight, Peter." And Peter said the second time, "Goodnight, Paul." And they were so confused. That's why they came and saw the monks. And thought we could understand. Yeah. Just the baby's being reborn. He's using his mind, not his brain. Brain is not capable of that yet.
▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 50:42 (to 51:44)
A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)
Bewildered parents told the monks their two-week-old seemed to answer his brother's 'goodnight'. Ajahn Brahm takes it as a sign of rebirth, and tells families with similar experiences that they're not crazy. Then, as the computer fails, he says something worth keeping. Imperfect things are lovable. So are you.
In brief (our summary)
A non-Buddhist couple in Perth came to the monks, bewildered. Home from hospital with their newborn second son, they asked the older boy to say goodnight to his brother. 'Goodnight, Peter.' And the baby, only a couple of weeks old, replied: 'Goodnight, Paul.' It happened a second time. Ajahn Brahm's explanation: the baby is being reborn and is using his mind, not his brain.
Teaching point
Offered as evidence that mind is separate from brain.
When this story may help
- new baby
- unexplained experiences
Themes
Source & credit
Told by Ajahn Brahm in The Nature of Suffering | Ajahn Brahm | 10 February 2023 · 2023-02-10 · ▶ watch from 50:42 to 51:44 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia
6 other tellings of this story
- Past Life Personality | Ajahn Brahm | 26 January 2018 · 2018-01-26 · ▶ watch from 16:48 to 17:44 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaJan 2018 telling: Good night Paul/Peter; adult speech from infant; then ordinary baby-speak for years.
- Buddhism & Cats | Ajahn Brahm | 1 June 2018 · 2018-06-01 · ▶ watch from 4:22 to 6:32 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaJun 2018 telling: Peter says goodnight to newborn Paul — Paul answers goodnight Peter.
- Guided Meditation | Ajahn Brahm | 2 July 2022 · 2022-07-02 · ▶ watch from 1:22:11 to 1:23:53 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaJul 2022: Aussie couple — newborn Peter answers elder Paul 'Goodnight' in adult voice.
- The Essence of Vesak | Ajahn Brahm | 24 May 2013 · 2013-06-02 · ▶ watch from 3:28 to 5:48 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaVesak 2013: Perth couple — newborn Paul answers Good night, Peter in adult voice; other couples later confirm.
- Vesak Day (Evening) | 19 May 2024 · 2024-05-20 · ▶ watch from 14:27 to 16:19 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaVesak 2024: Australian parents, not Buddhists, come to the community hall; elder child told to say goodnight; the few-weeks-old baby answers in an adult voice. He notes he may have the names wrong.
- Emboldening the Mind with Fizz & Sparkle (9/14) | Ajahn Brahm & Venerable Canda | 10 December 2021 · 2022-02-14 · ▶ watch from 24:20 to 26:19 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaCanda-retreat telling: Perth Western parents, not Buddhists; he changes the names to Peter and Paul so the family is not embarrassed; the two-week-old answers 'good night Peter.'
Caption notes: YouTube auto-captions with machine-added punctuation; words left exactly as captioned.
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