Story · Ajahn Brahm
Missed lunch for the woman at the airport
Content note: violence; family crisis; sensitive; named-situation privacy
The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)
there was a call uh a woman was in big trouble uh she had um stabbed her mother-in-law mother-in-law was taken to hospital and this woman she' escaped to the airport and she was crazy she said I was the only person she wanted to see so of course you need to go and help her last thing you want to think about is your lunch I I missed my lunch that day I went hungry but who cares you could help somebody
▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 13:53 (to 14:27)
A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)
Just at mealtime, Ajahn Brahm got an urgent call: a woman in serious crisis would speak only to him. He skipped lunch, the only meal monks have, and went. Hungry, but glad. Schedules matter less than a person who needs us. The moment in front of you is where kindness happens.
In brief (our summary)
At lunchtime a call: a woman in crisis had stabbed her mother-in-law (hospitalised), fled to the airport, and would see only Ajahn Brahm. He skipped the meal window and went hungry to help — proud of choosing the between-moment of care over the schedule.
Teaching point
Sometimes the sacred schedule yields to a human being in crisis.
When this story may help
- family violence crisis
- choosing what matters
Themes
Source & credit
Told by Ajahn Brahm in In Between | Ajahn Brahm | 27-05-2011 · 2011-05-28 · ▶ watch from 13:53 to 14:27 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia
1 other telling of this story
- Inspiration | Ajahn Brahm | 05-02-2010 · 2010-04-09 · ▶ watch from 23:13 to 23:54 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaFeb 2010 telling: airport crisis — hours with Thai woman after stabbing; misses lunch, gets scolded.
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