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Sundays church, Saturdays temple

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The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)

this was actually you know my predecessor AJ and Jacob gave this wonderful piece of advice when he had a Thai girl married to an Italian Catholic and they asked and they did a wedding ceremony for them and then asked what should we do you know for our religious life and he gave this wonderful person a Catholic married to a Buddhist he said on Sundays you both go to church together on Saturdays you both come to the temple together

▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 23:30 (to 24:09)

A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)

Marrying a Thai Buddhist to an Italian Catholic, Ajahn Jagaro advised: Sundays you both go to church, Saturdays you both come to the temple. Neither had to convert; each would learn how the other thinks. Spend time in someone else's world. Understanding dissolves the mistrust that grows into blame and hatred.

In brief (our summary)

Ajahn Jagaro marries a Thai Buddhist woman to an Italian Catholic. Asked how they should practise, he says: Sundays you both go to church together; Saturdays you both come to the temple together — so each understands the other's faith.

Teaching point

Shared practice across difference dissolves mistrust better than conversion.

When this story may help

  • interfaith marriage

Themes

Source & credit

Told by Ajahn Brahm in Hatred and how to overcome it | Ajahn Brahm | 17 Jun 2016 · 2016-06-17 · ▶ watch from 23:30 to 24:09 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia

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