Analogy · Ajahn Brahm
Wrap yourself a gift of peace
The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)
go to the cupboard and get an old box, get some gift wrapping paper and maybe a bow and a little gift dedication card, and then in that box put something really really really important for you - a real gift - something you would really treasure - peace. Even write it on a piece of paper "p e a c e - to me", your name, with love from me, with your name again. And then put that little piece of gift paper, "peace to me with love from me", put it in the box, put the lid on, and wrap it as carefully as you possibly can with beautiful gift-wrapping paper, tie a nice little bow and put a little card, "happy whatever, happy anniversary, happy birthday, happy Mother's Day, Father's Day or whatever day" to yourself and then put it somewhere and then just go and have your lunch or go to work or go to sleep and when you wake up the following morning - you find it! Wow! Surprise! Someone's given me a gift. And play the game as best you possibly can - "wow I wonder what it is inside" and when you open the parcel and you open the lid you see a gift of peace from me with love to me. Ohh, how sweet, what I've always wanted - peace
▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 12:09 (to 14:14)
A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)
Ajahn Brahm suggests a birthday game: wrap an empty box with a note inside that says 'peace, to me, with love from me'. Hide it, find it, and act surprised. Just what you wanted. Peace isn't something to wait for. Grant yourself permission to set down past and future for a while.
In brief (our summary)
For a birthday or anniversary, wrap an empty box carefully, put inside a paper that says 'peace — to me, with love from me', hide it, 'find' it next morning and play along until you open the gift you always wanted: peace.
Teaching point
Peace has to be granted to yourself like a real gift, not waited for.
When this story may help
- burnout
- never resting
- birthday alone
Themes
Source & credit
Told by Ajahn Brahm in Grant Yourself A Moment Of Peace | Ajahn Brahm | 19 May 2020 · 2020-05-19 · ▶ watch from 12:09 to 14:14 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia
Caption notes: Manual (volunteer) captions; occasional misspellings kept as is.
The narrative is Ajahn Brahm's own telling, quoted from the talk captions. The summary and reflection are Being Mindful Stories's editorial notes. Please credit the teacher and link the original talk. Markdown version