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“If only my house were this small”

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The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)

And I still remember about ten years ago taking a group of women who were visiting the monastery, it was a local women's group who wanted to do weird things on an afternoon and had never been to the monastery and that qualified being weird, and when I took them to see my hut my room, I always remember one of the girls turning around to me and saying 'wow if only my house were this small I get all my house work done in half an hour'.

▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 17:05 (to 17:41)

A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)

Seeing his tiny monastery hut, a visitor sighed that she'd finish her housework in half an hour if her home were that size. A big house asks for a big mortgage and endless cleaning. You needn't move into a cave, but each extra room, gadget or upgrade costs time. Choosing a little less can hand back your evenings.

In brief (our summary)

Showing a visiting local women's group his small monastery hut, Ajahn Brahm hears one woman say with envy: “Wow, if only my house were this small, I'd get all my housework done in half an hour.”

Teaching point

Big houses cost time — to pay for and to maintain; simplicity gives freedom.

When this story may help

  • housework overload
  • mortgage stress
  • downsizing

Themes

Source & credit

Told by Ajahn Brahm in The Secret | Ajahn Brahm | 30 Dec 2007 · 2008-04-03 · ▶ watch from 17:05 to 17:41 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia

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Caption notes: Volunteer transcript: contains editorial annotations such as '(audience laughs)' and occasional misspellings ('bugler', 'tample'); kept as is.

The narrative is Ajahn Brahm's own telling, quoted from the talk captions. The summary and reflection are Being Mindful Stories's editorial notes. Please credit the teacher and link the original talk. Markdown version

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