Story · Ajahn Brahm
She signed a blank cheque so the refugee could see her dying mother
Content note: death
The story — as told by Ajahn Brahm (verbatim captions)
One of the Laotian refugees had just got a telegram from her mom her her her actually from family members, her mother was dying. But in Oregon, in uh United States. And she was here in Perth, this refugee. She had no means of getting to see her mother for one last time. And so, she was crying her eyes out. And the lady I'm talking about, she was organizing the flowers for the hall. She stopped doing that, reached into her um handbag, took out a checkbook. In those days, we used checkbooks. And just signed a blank check for her. For any amount. You go and see your mom
▶ Watch Ajahn Brahm tell it from 39:37 (to 40:31)
A reflection (in the spirit of Ajahn Brahm's talk)
A refugee got word that her mother was dying overseas and had no money to fly. A nurse arranging flowers, herself out of work, stopped and signed her a blank cheque: go see your mum. Kindness like that is beautiful. Ajahn Brahm pairs it with peace. Sitting quietly together and smiling says we care.
In brief (our summary)
In the Buddhist centre hall a Laotian refugee gets a telegram — mother dying in Oregon — no money to fly. The woman arranging flowers stops, opens her chequebook and signs a blank cheque: go see your mum.
Teaching point
Generosity can be a blank cheque when someone is crying for a last goodbye.
When this story may help
- sudden bereavement travel
- refugee poverty
Themes
Source & credit
Told by Ajahn Brahm in Mind Made Worlds | Ajahn Brahm | 20 January 2023 · 2023-01-20 · ▶ watch from 39:37 to 40:31 · Buddhist Society of Western Australia
2 other tellings of this story
- Importance of Kindness in Buddhism | Ajahn Brahm | 23 June 2023 · 2023-06-26 · ▶ watch from 27:56 to 30:36 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaJun 2023: Laotian refugee telegram — mother dying in Oregon; flower-lady blank cheque.
- Wisdom from Experience | Ajahn Brahm | 7 November 2025 · 2025-11-08 · ▶ watch from 21:38 to 24:04 · Buddhist Society of Western AustraliaNov 2025: Laotian refugee / Oregon mother dying; out-of-work Thai nurse signs blank cheque.
Caption notes: YouTube auto-captions with machine-added punctuation; words left exactly as captioned.
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